Create Deep and Loving Relationships and You’ll Never Feel Lonely Again
My new coaching program will help you to build relationships by showing up as who you really are.
Are you curious about how you can attract awesome people into your life, without even trying?
Would you like to know how you can take your current relationships to the next level?
Are you wondering why some people can effortlessly attract whoever they want, while you struggle to keep a conversation going?
Feeling connected to friends and family is vital to a happy and fulfilled life, yet there’s no subject in school that teaches how to do that. If we’re not lucky enough to have great role models in our family, we’re often left wondering what’s wrong with us, since everyone else seems to connect so effortlessly.
I was one of those unlucky people, but after years of suffering, I’ve taken matters into my own hand, and I taught myself everything I need to know to have a fulfilling social life.
In this letter, I will show you how to master the art of human connection, so you can have a fulfilling life too.
But let’s talk about you first…
You’re longing for someone you can share your life with, yet you feel lonely, and you have no one who understands you.
You’d do so much better if you had friends who supported you in just the right way, and you’re wondering how you can find them.
But you’ve also realized that waiting around will not solve your problem, and you’re ready to act. You will step out of your comfort zone and do what it takes to finally create the human connections you are longing for.
I think that’s truly wonderful, and I want to congratulate you on that. There are many wonderful people out there who are lonely and waiting for someone to make the first step. You can be the one who makes the world a better place by reaching out to those who need it enriching your own life at the same time.
You Can Have All the Relationships You Want
So far, you’ve taken more of a passive approach. You have waited for others to approach you, let them drive the conversation, and you waited to be invited to events, instead of taking the initiative.
And even if you did approach someone, you behaved in a way you thought would please them, instead of being yourself.
This didn’t work because no one wants to be responsible for everything. Would you want a friend who always agrees with you, lets you make all the decisions, and contributes nothing to the conversation?
Probably not, so why would anyone else?
We want to be around people who are confident in who they are and not afraid to express their views and opinions openly. People who work towards their goals and stand up for what they believe in.
By cultivating those qualities, you can become naturally attractive, without even trying. And the good news is that you already have all these wonderful qualities inside of you.
As you were growing up, however, your parents and teachers told you that you needed to behave and to fit in, so they got buried inside of you.
It’s Okay to Be Exceptional!
Every human being has a tremendous source of strength and wisdom inside of them, but we often get disconnected from it as we are growing up because our parents, school, and society expect us to conform. So we forget this wonderful part of us, and we’re left feeling empty.
You can learn to find this power again, however, and life will be fun again.
You can pursue your goals with renewed energy and with complete confidence.
With the help of this inner power, you’ll be able to speak your mind confidently, and you’ll become a natural leader that other people look up to.
Do You Want to Learn the Art of Human Connection?
Human beings are created to connect; forming relationships with others is built into our DNA, and everyone can learn the elements needed to form a real connection.
Ideally, you would have learned how to do that from your role models as you were growing up, but since you had no one to learn from, you feel like it’s an impossible task.
I had no good role models either, so I had to learn the art of connection all by myself.
Scraping together bits and pieces from various books and videos, I stumbled from embarrassment to embarrassment, until I had a good grasp on what did and didn’t work.
Because I don’t want you to go through that, I developed a powerful coaching program, that will teach you everything you need to know to form meaningful and lasting relationships with amazing people.
It’s the essence of what I’ve learned and what I wished someone had taught me ten years ago.
Because I believe the world would be a better place if everyone could create and maintain meaningful connections, I made it my mission to help men like you learn the art of human connection.
So please allow me to share more about how we can work together to draw amazing people into your life.
Coaching is the Most Powerful Way to Learn
I love coaching because there’s nothing better than seeing an unfulfilled and lonely life turn into a one rich with meaning, love, and connection.
I want you to have wonderful friends and relationships. I want you to be surrounded with great people and to get all the love and support you need.
As your coach, I’ll do my best to understand what’s going on in your life, and I’ll support you in getting what you want. Coaching is about your dreams and goals, and I’ll be there to help you on your journey towards reaching them.
My job as a coach isn’t to tell you what to do, but to understand what drives you and then create a safe space for you to become who you truly are.
I’ll be there with you as you take your first steps and develop the strength, confidence, and skills you need to continue your journey on your own.
You already have all the strength and wisdom you need inside of you, and I will help you find them, so you can use them for the rest of your life.
Use Centuries of Knowledge to Your Advantage
To improve my connection skills, I didn’t just rely on modern psychology. I also studied the teachings of ancient and modern philosophers, and I learned so much about what it means to be human that it completely transformed me.
By applying what I learned, I skyrocketed my confidence and developed a mindset that allows me to enjoy every second of my life, even if things aren’t going my way.
Marcus Aurelius, the Roman Emperor, already knew that “very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.”
Lao Tzu observed, “when you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.”
You may have heard those quotes before, but if you understand how to apply them to your daily life, they have the potential to change your life.
My personal favorite is the insight from the modern philosopher, Vernon Howard: “You feel good not because the world is right, but your world is right because you feel good.”
By constantly applying this in my day-to-day life and my thinking, I overcame my depression and created a life for myself that I truly enjoy.
I’ve also had great success in using these teachings to help my clients reach their goals, saving them the thousands of hours I spent studying and refining these techniques. And the good news is that you can learn all of this too.
Here Are Just Some of the Things You Can Achieve
You’ll Be a Conversational Wizard
Imagine you’re walking into a room full of people you’ve never met. You’re standing at the entrance, completely calm and relaxed, scanning the crowd. When you see someone interesting, you walk towards them without hesitation.
As soon as they make eye contact, you crack a big smile, and they smile back at you. You introduce yourself, and within five minutes, you’ve gone far beyond small talk, and you’re learning about their dreams and desires.
You’ll Gain Real Confidence
Confidence in social situations can be learned. I was the most insecure person in the world, and now — while I’m not Superman – I can hold my own.
I’m not confident because I’m successful, however. I built my confidence through challenging my beliefs and adopting a mindset that allows me to draw my confidence from who I am and not from what I have achieved.
This is a much stronger form of confidence because you’ll never lose it. You’re going to be yourself for the rest of your life, no matter what happens and how many times you fail.
When we work together, I’ll help you to tap into that inner source of confidence and help you bring it into your day-to-day life, so you can finally live the life you want, instead of constantly holding back.
You’ll Have a Much Richer Experience of Life
I’m not a therapist, and I won’t ask about your childhood, but I’ll ask you to experience the moment to the fullest. That includes the pain and fear you may feel around other people. Feeling everything going on inside of you is the only way to move forward and finally leave your burdens behind.
Not only will you be able to leave your pain behind, but you’ll also be able to experience much more love and joy, because you’ll be in tune with your emotions.
This will take a lot of courage, and it took me years until I was ready to stop running and face myself, but I know you’re ready now because you’ve read this far. And I’ll be there to guide and to support you on this exciting inner journey.
You’ll be Your Own Best Friend
No matter how many people there are in your life, you are still the most important person in the world. Every second of your life, you’ll be spending with yourself, and it would be a shame if you spent all this time with someone you don’t like.
I hated myself for years, and I thought that would help me to become a better person, but it only made me miserable. Once I accepted myself, however, I could finally reach my true potential.
I Thought I Would Die Alone, But What I Learned Changed My Life
Like you, I was one of those unlucky people, who had no clue about how to find friends and how to start meaningful relationships. I had a good job, and my life looked good on paper, but I felt empty inside. I got more and more depressed until, at age 26, I was ready to end it all.
This probably sounds horrible, and I was suffering, but it also gave me the opportunity to experiment. One day, I realized I could do whatever I wanted because if things got worse, I could still kill myself.
So I held off on the suicide to finally do what I always wanted to do, no matter the consequences.
From that day on, my life started to turn around, and now, I’m thrilled to be alive. I learned to accept everything about me, no matter how terrible, and only by accepting all my flaws, I could finally get to know myself.
I could look at the depth of my soul, and what I saw wasn’t terrible. I was actually a decent person, and the number of friends didn’t define me.
Rewrite your Story Like My Other Clients Did
No matter how stuck you feel and how bad your situation is, improvement is always possible. I always thought I would die alone, until I decided to do whatever it takes to overcome my depression and social anxiety. I have a wonderful life now, and I have helped many clients to improve theirs.
One client of mine, who was very shy, has gone out to meet people after just a few sessions. She took guitar and painting lessons, where she’s made new friends. She also used to stay in her hotel room alone, when she was traveling for work. Now, she’s going out in the evening, enjoying herself.
Another client has fulfilled her lifelong dream to go traveling through Australia for a year, where she’s meeting all kinds of great people.
No matter your story, there’s still time to rewrite it. What you’re experiencing isn’t the end. It’s the part in the middle, where all hope seems lost. Evil is about to take over the kingdom, killing everything in its path.
But guess what. The hero doesn’t give up. He keeps fighting with all his strength, and in the end, the hero always triumphs.
You can be the hero of your story.
Time May Heal all Wounds, But it Will Make Relationships Fall Apart
I’ve waited most of my life for things to get better. At school, I thought everything would finally be okay once I went to University. At University, I thought I’d be okay once I got a job, and only when I had a job, I had to face the fact that the problem didn’t lie with my circumstances. The problem lay with me.
Nothing got better. Instead, I lost the few friends I had, and I felt lost and alone.
The worst part about waiting is that loneliness reinforces itself. Studies have found merely asking people to recall times they felt lonely would make them devalue their existing relationships.
That means that, even if you feel just a little lonely, there’s a good chance you isolate yourself. Feeling lonely also reduces your social skills, making it even harder for you to reach out and connect with others.
This vicious cycle means you must act soon, before you’ve isolated yourself and lost all your social skills.
If you don’t act now, where will you be five years from now? What will you be doing in ten years? Is this the life you want to have?
You Don’t Have to Do it Alone
One of the biggest mistakes I made was to wait years until I finally talked to someone about my depression. I thought I should be able to figure it all out on my own.
Asking for help would mean I was a complete failure — I thought. But when I reached out for professional help for the first time, my life got better.
Slowly, at first, but the more I asked for help, the faster my life improved. Now, I get support from both professional coaches and a circle of wonderful friends.
You have tried to do it on your own so far, but everything will be so much easier if you just reach out for help.
So apply for a free transformative coaching conversation today and join all my other clients, who have created wonderful lives for themselves.
Take Your First Step Towards a Richer Life Today
Mother Theresa said loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty, so if anything is worth investing in, it’s human connection.
So please watch this video, where I’ll explain what our first conversation will be like and what we can achieve together.
A single coaching conversation has the potential to transform your life, and afterward, you can decide if you want to keep building your dream life with me. But if you feel like the one conversation is enough to get you started, you can continue your journey on your own.
The conversation is free, and there are absolutely no strings attached.
Frequently asked questions
Will this program help me to find a girlfriend or a boyfriend?
Absolutely. A deep and meaningful connection is at the heart of every successful romantic relationship. Once you’ve made an emotional connection, taking your relationship further will come easily and naturally to you.
I've tried everything. Why would this time be different?
My approach is unique, and I have found no one who does quite what I do. I’ve had great success, even in seemingly hopeless cases.
What happens after I've applied?
I’ll review your application, and if I believe we’re a good fit, I’ll send you the link to my scheduler, where you can choose a time and date for our coaching conversation.
How do we connect for the session?
We’ll have our conversation through Skype or Google Hangouts.
If I sign up for the free session, will I be pressured to buy the program?
No. I want clients who are ready to act. If I feel like we can achieve life changing results together, I will offer you to work with me, but the decision is up to you.